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I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
She learned the ways of life there and had no problems. She was always poor white trash in the US, already had 2 half black kids in the US she had long abandoned, was content to be married to a very poor ugly Mexican man and bear his children in Mexico. He was very small, she was big as a house.
Because she is an American citizen the baby would be a citizen from birth, anywhere it was born, despite the illegal father. Doesn’t matter one iota. One American citizen parent = set for life 
But the story she tells me is when the time came to birth the baby they wanted to just have the baby in Mexico at the local hospital. Because she was humongous and likely had at least gestational diabetes, the baby was likely oversized and could cause serious complications, too risky to have a GD baby outside of the hospital.
Being very poor they did not have the $250 fee needed to have the baby in the Mexican hospital, and they don’t have payment plans.
So she did what all the other Mexican village girls did: hit the road very heavily pregnant for a very unwelcome journey to the nearest border hospital in Texas. It wasn’t THAT far but being poor it was still an effort to have a working vehicle & gas money to get to the Texas hospital, but they figured out it would still be cheaper to get to the US where hospital birth was free.
After having the baby (no complications, 1st of 3) they went back to his mother’s house in Mexico to remain penniless. I was shocked that it was routine for the village pregnant girls to do this, and was told that I had to understand they had NO MONEY, the $250 fee to them was enormous and unaffordable, and the Mexican hospital is pay-first. Nobody had that kind of money laying around. It was either birth at home (done safely for millions of years), pay big bucks $250 to a safe Mexican hospital, or travel to the US where everything is free.
She said the villagers had no interest in gaining American citizenship, didn’t care about anchor baby status, thought the Mexican hospital was better than the US one, the only issue was money.
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SpankyRe: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
This never happened.
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Re: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
They had to be careful about labor timing & not leave for the US hospital too soon, since they had no money for a hotel and the US hospital wasn’t going to let them stay overnight.
She said the hospital was a dump and the nurses mean as shyt but at least it was free.
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SpankyRe: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
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They had to be careful about labor timing & not leave for the US hospital too soon, since they had no money for a hotel and the US hospital wasn’t going to let them stay overnight.
She said the hospital was a dump and the nurses mean as shyt but at least it was free.
This never happened.
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Re: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
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Re: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
Spanky wrote:
This never happened.
I’m afraid it did. She said having an infant in Mexico was a little hard (compared to her first 2 abandoned children), no money for disposable diapers etc, but it was a simple life & peaceful & she had the Mexican mother-in-law to help care of the baby which was nice. She had no US family or they were estranged. I met her brother but he had his own problems.
By the time she had the next 2 babies they had already relocated to the US, kinda moving around from place to place. I met her shortly after the third & final baby, who broke the hospital record for hugest baby ever (undiagnosed gestional diabetes from having no prenatal care & overeating). They were kinda proud of that baby’s large size. I never got to see that kid grown up, heard he had a job in CA.
I liked her and helped them get a house thru Habitat For Humanity, which is like winning the lottery.
Unfortunately they completely fuqed it up and burned all bridges and no longer have the house. I was younger and didn’t yet realize that you can’t really help people who have a long record of fuqing up every single good thing that happens to them.
One of the kids (grown) looks exactly like the father but is big as a house like the mother.
The parents split up long ago, no idea if he got deported, they didn’t seem to care about his paperwork status & nobody knew if they were ever legally married.
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SpankyRe: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
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I’m afraid it did. She said having an infant in Mexico was a little hard (compared to her first 2 abandoned children), no money for disposable diapers etc, but it was a simple life & peaceful & she had the Mexican mother-in-law to help care of the baby which was nice. She had no US family or they were estranged. I met her brother but he had his own problems.
By the time she had the next 2 babies they had already relocated to the US, kinda moving around from place to place. I met her shortly after the third & final baby, who broke the hospital record for hugest baby ever (undiagnosed gestional diabetes from having no prenatal care & overeating). They were kinda proud of that baby’s large size. I never got to see that kid grown up, heard he had a job in CA.
I liked her and helped them get a house thru Habitat For Humanity, which is like winning the lottery.
Unfortunately they completely fuqed it up and burned all bridges and no longer have the house. I was younger and didn’t yet realize that you can’t really help people who have a long record of fuqing up every single good thing that happens to them.
One of the kids (grown) looks exactly like the father but is big as a house like the mother.
The parents split up long ago, no idea if he got deported, they didn’t seem to care about his paperwork status & nobody knew if they were ever legally married.
This never happened.
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Re: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
One thing I remember: one kid had a terrible temper, violent and loud and demanding, pushy & just unpleasant to be around. The mother explained how she would never discipline that child, that life is hard and the kid would need this fighting spirit to stand up for themself, that the spirit was God’s gift and they would not try to restrain it in any way.
That child is now adult, big as a house, on welfare, attentionwhore on social media about ICE.
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Re: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
Spanky wrote:
This never happened.
could it be Valerie Solanas?
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Re: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
Spanky wrote:
This never happened.
I have experiences that you’ve never had.
I’ve lived real life scenarios. I was once a Democrat and thought it was my solemn duty to share my wealth with the needy. I served on boards for good causes (including Habitat for Humanity, hence sponsoring this fuqed up family of disaster.
Like many before me I learned a lesson, you cannot save people from themselves. You can be kind and generous in other forms.
And the do-gooder groups weren’t what they seemed either.
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SpankyRe: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
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One thing I remember: one kid had a terrible temper, violent and loud and demanding, pushy & just unpleasant to be around. The mother explained how she would never discipline that child, that life is hard and the kid would need this fighting spirit to stand up for themself, that the spirit was God’s gift and they would not try to restrain it in any way.
That child is now adult, big as a house, on welfare, attentionwhore on social media about ICE.
Why do you write 30 posts in your own thread that are apropos of nothing and could have been included in the OP?
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Re: I once met a woman- American citizen- married to an illegal Mexican. During pregnancy they lived in Mexico with his mother, in poverty.
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Being very poor they did not have the $250 fee needed to have the baby in the Mexican hospital, and they don’t have payment plans.
Complete bullshyt. Mexico has universal healthcare, bagger. 
Your made up immigration porn story is a fail.
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